Serious!

You know, I think I'm getting far too serious and philosophical in my posts. I definitely need to have more fun, don't I? And perhaps write about it in a little more detail, hmmm? I'm not sure it would come naturally to me, but I can always try, can't I? Would be nice to look back on in my dry spells too.

Well, I guess it's like being the other woman at times like easter; the only difference being that I have a family of my own. But I do miss the online flirting a lot - weekends are a bit tough, but I've been making a concerted effort to (a) finish my novel, and (b) give the oh some attention. So that does take up a bit of time, doesn't it? I'm also reading a psychology book about what attracts people to each other - field research if you like. What attracts me? Being clean for one - and a sense of humour is essential - other than that I'm not fussy, although generous attributes are most welcome (mmm golfer).

Maybe that's why I've been quite successful in finding men - I'm not that fussy? - or perhaps character actually is more important to me than looks? I think it's got to be as you get older though, hasn't it? Plus, I'm not meeting guys to show off to my mates, just to boff me senseless (which they have done very well so far). Madly, I am converted to meeting guys like this, which I never thought I would be - and talking to my friend, she is too, cos so many women at work have met someone like this. One girl she knows met a multi-millionaire - swears she wants him for his body though - why not? They're getting married and everything! Wow!

Well last day at work tomorrow, and next week, working with complete idiots, so looking forward to that immensely - summer's here! Should hear from himself tomorrow as well - let's hope so. I was toying with being unavailable just to mess with him, but I'm sure I'll crack, don't you think? Perhaps he'll have good news xxxx