Strange?

I don't know what to think about this, so I thought I'd write it down. Well, I chat to this guy in the states, and honestly we get on pretty well. He's quite well off, won't leave his wife, nice family, an upstanding citizen and all that. A bit frustrated yes, so he sleeps with other women, and yes, the odd escort, which I guess I can understand.

Well, he told me he's planning a trip. This trip involves him and several friends going to Singapore and holing up in a suite with a bunch of chinese hookers. Well, since he told me, I've been feeling quite sick. And then I've been thinking, well, am I being cranky? Is it me?? I just find this the most horrible sleazy thing I could possibly think of, and honestly not what I'd expect of a nice guy like him at all. And that's before I go into just how vile I think the sex tourism market is.

But you know, I really liked this guy, and I feel just horribly let down. He really can't be who I thought he was can he? Or is this actually what all men would like to do if they had the opportunity? And if they can, does that mean they should? I'm honestly debating just cutting any contact with him at all, which surprises me a bit, cos I'm quite easy going and liberal. It's getting to me though, and I'm not all that sure why - perhaps because I did care about him quite a bit. Can we still be friends and get past this - should I tell him what I think?

Perhaps the worst thing is, he asked me if I'd like to join them - no!! I really can't think of anything I'd less rather do - would he expect me to screw his sleazy friends too, so he could watch? I guess he thinks I'd enjoy it. Maybe I should just block him. Any opinions would be good - I'm confused x