Kindred Spirits

It's funny but since I've been having my affairs, I've found lots of people in similar relationships. Now, not in real life, but on the internet - although I have a friend who I'm pretty damn sure gets even less action than me - she's actually my only friend who may have an inkling of what I'm up to. So as you know, I've been chatting to this crazy guy who is in a sexless marriage, and boy what a laugh we've had. He's just hilarious, and gives me tips to use with my guys (brilliant!). It's so great.

But this last week, I've also been chatting with a lady, similar age to me, who is having an affair. Well, we're almost like twins the way our lives are going - and it's been so nice chatting about things with someone in the same boat! Her guy refuses to admit to having an affair - apparently it's just sex - so she calls him 'my sex man'. Hilarious! He's done this quite a lot and isn't ever going to leave his wife or anything - and there's a certain honesty about that isn't there? But we both feel that it will be nice to have someone who really understands to talk to - and it so is!! Plus we talk a lot at the weekend, which is usually a stupidly quiet time for me, so it kind of fills a gap.

Well, I've got two weeks to wait for the bm - and I'm seeing the golfer in June - he sent a message today - sweet man! So, it's rather frustrating isn't it?? I've also been chatting regularly with the dj, who is so messed up. I'm still not sure I could cope with him - must reply soon actually. But the weather is gorgeous and things always seems better in the sunshine, don't they. However, was talking to the mad swimmer, and he said he thought we were very similar - both want to leave, but biding our time and making plans - yes, that's me.

Wow, and I applied for a job. Now this might well take me away during the week - I could live in the big city - and boy could I get up to some mischief if I did. The bm lives there (now, just imagine that - swoon) and the golfer is not far. Boy, this could really work out to my advantage couldn't it? It would be like being single again. And if my ultimate plan is to go, it would be a more gradual way of doing it, wouldn't it? What an amazing thought - see I always thought the universe would slowly sort things out, didn't I? xxxx