Well this is another first for me !!

Well hello and welcome to my blog. I'm not quite sure where to start, so I'll just dive right in - I'm a very normal, really very happy and successful woman. I've raised my kids well, and got a great job, but hey, you knew this was coming didn't you - all is not well. You see, for some time, my husband and I have had a very very limited sex life, partly perhaps because he is a fair bit older than me, so perhaps that's my own stupid fault. Anyway, to cut a long story short, after perhaps five years of being reasonable, understanding, angry, pissed off, frustrated, etc, etc, you get the idea, I've decided that this is just how it's going to be from now on.



So after one particularly horrible comment from other half, I went and sulked upstairs, and signed into a website for people looking for some extra marital naughtiness. Well, what a revelation that was!! All these men, looking for sex - well perhaps not that surprising - but so many; and also so many frustrated women looking for the same. Interesting, I thought. It really seemed that the whole world was at it, and more importantly, getting away with it. So, I thought, why not me?



I signed in - without a photo in my underwear or other evidence that I had completely lost my mind. Of course, I knocked five years off my age - why not? And waited for the propositions to start - well, boy did they start!! Some were immediate write-offs I'm afraid, and I'm sorry to be so judgemental, but if they looked weird, or sounded weird, then forget it. Also, if they were very young then, tempting as it might be to re-live some lost youth thing, sorry, but no. I was immediately struck though by how well to do most of these guys are - you know lawyers, doctors, and an awful lot owned their own business as well. I have to say right off here that I have a horrible prejudice against people who can't spell - however, I'm so glad I let my guard down over this particular thing, as one of my favourite men found his way past this one. I'll tell you more about him later.


So, I started talking to these guys - they can send you virtual kisses - and I got loads of them - but I soon got a bit more discerning. If they'd taken some real trouble over what they said then they got an answer. Most of them were really not looking to leave their wives - fine with me - but just desperately missing sex. Sure, they talk about intimacy and feeling loved and all that, but you know they just want someone to shag them until they're sick really, don't they?


I did soon find it was a bit of a full time job, though, and you can't talk to everyone. But my goodness it was a tonic, and I'd recommend it to anyone, really!! And it was also nice to find that so many other people were in the same boat as me so to speak. I had researched 'loss of libido' and all that sort of thing for absolutely ages on the internet, but really most sites just talked about women - they all seemed to agree that it didn't happen to men - well excuse me, go on these websites and I think you'll find otherwise, mate.


So that's how it all began. I did want to explain what brought me here, because I'm not a cheater by nature - but I could visualise all my life stretching out in front of me, and no sex, ever!!! No!! And boy I've tried to live without it, I've tried doing other things to not think about it, but honestly guys, there's nothing like it, is there?


So that's it, my first post! Would love to hear your comments, good, bad or indifferent. I think this is going to be fun!